of men being men;
of men being uncompromising and loving pastors;
of men being humble, gentle, strong husbands and fathers.
This does not demean the importance or office of women. But the Scriptures make it clear that men ought to be pastors and a husband ought to be the head of his home. A pastor who refuses to lead his church and a husband who refuses to lead his family are not real men.
This means that men need to find God's Biblical will, power and anointing concerning authority and compassion, and live by them.
Loving, wise wives will support the Christlike husband and wise parishioners will follow Spirit anointed pastors. If you want disaster, bend the will of God.